Im that kinda person that trying hard as i can to be positive and sometimes its to much for me to handle.
And i easily like to help people around me, even often i don’t know is it that im a good helper or being a trouble maker. But my husband teach me well for not messing around with people issues.
Even the issues from my close relative such as my big brother. Even they asked for any opinion from you just keep as an outsider and don’t get too involed. Just be a good listener and saying straight suggestion but don’t be the solution. Let them think how they want to solve the problem.
I know it look like im not care and cruel, but i get the point. Its the best for them and me. Coz i used to be over sensitive to all people issues than somehow im over thiking about it then becaming my personal problem. Then my soul full of trashes that they give me, slowly shatered me by pieces.
They that sharing their issues with me can be learn to make their own decission.
Easy to say but its hard to doing it, theory is simple but to get it done that another issues to handle.
Now you know my mood like a rollercoaster, yeah!
Im back writting about my life people, my any mumbling words that unspokken but hopping write well on this blog. Try to practice and use English as my languange even im not sure i can.
Ummi is same as mother or mommy but if often use by arabic family, but im an Indonesian citizen. Ummi is called by my childern. So yes i am a mother of three little krucil. Mungil is mean tiny or small, but the true is it for that im short :P. Just about 148cm, how mouch is that on feet measure? Im like a hobit, maybe?
My first older child is Azmi 5 years, a princes wanabe have a lot of creativity to show. Then came to Rizky 3 years is a superhereos freek but scare for little bugs. And my little one Sarah 6 months, is still crawling for new adventure.
And me Erika an stay home wife with some issues to take care of. Still learning for being happy for my selves and hopping can be a good mother.
Reading this you will know that my English suck, coz when im happy learning it only with Elmo, Big Bird, Oscar and friend. Take course at LIA, ILP not make any improvement.
So it take courage for me to write it on English, so im open for any correction if you get my point of view.
So enjoy my life!